We get more of what we focus on. When our thoughts are
negative, we tend to see things through that negative filter. Likewise, when we
focus on what we are grateful for, we are more aware of the wonderful things we
have in our lives.
Since we get to choose what we’ll think about, the goal of this self-care exercise is to cultivate gratitude and positive feelings in the present moment.
Gratitude Meditation
A powerful way to focus on gratitude is to think about
everything you’re grateful for while walking, falling asleep, meditating, or
simply sitting.
• Imagine that there is a ripple that moves from you
outward.
• Start by expressing gratitude for everything about
yourself: your body, your mind, your heart, and your spirit.
• Next express gratitude for those around you: your family,
your friends, your neighbors, your coworkers, and so on.
• Then move on to other things you are grateful for: where
you live, the weather, cultural events in your city. . . you get the idea.
• Allow the ripple to continue to move outward in ever
widening circles
Gratitude Journal
• Choose a journal that you love. If you want,add photos,
inspirational quotes, or drawings that remind you of meaningful events and
people in your life, or images that inspire happiness and contentment.
• Carve out several minutes each day to write down at least
three things you are grateful for in your life. Remember that you are choosing
to focus on positive things in your life, no matter how small.
• Write about anything you want and be as specific as you
can. For example, instead of writing “I am grateful for my children,” you could
write “I am grateful for my children who remind me to see things as if for the
first time.”
• If you are having difficulty coming up with something to
be grateful for, start small, for example, “I can hear (see) the birds outside
my window.”
• As thoughts of unpleasant circumstances arise, make an
effort to find the silver lining.
For example, you could write, “I am upset
that my daughter is leaving for college, and I am grateful that I have more
time to nourish and explore some of my passions and hobbies,” or “I am sad that
relationship did not work, and I am grateful it has helped me to see what I
want more clearly in my next partner.”
Reflect on experience
As you complete the gratitude exercises do a body-mind-
heart scan. What sensations do you feel throughout your body?
How does spending time to reflect on your blessings affect
your relationship with yourself and loved ones?
What situations or experiences can you reframe by
incorporating the practice of gratitude into your daily life?
You don't need to spend a lot of money or time to nourish
your body, mind, and heart.
P.S. How and why to create self-care bufferzone to keep all stress at bay is just one of the many challenges that is address in Mindful Eating Coaching Program.Caring for yourself allows you to recharge your battery and focus on your needs. You are less sensible to stress eating. Just remember, you're worth it!
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